Confused!! Often I tend confuse people, by now you must have understood this I just control my thoughts, they are like Agarker’s Over ek Yorker to Yek Wide, ek No ball to doosra Bowled … he he :-)
Few years ago, I read this book called “Seven Habits of Highly Effective People”, awesome guide to personality development, few of them sticked to my board in the office, one of which I really like: First One where, Cowey says,
“Be Proactive – A Personal Vision”.
I tend to read this whenever I feel down and out, seriously these habits push me up and keep me moving, again!!
Few the points although scattered would like to share with you all…
“Our problems fall in three areas Direct Control (problems involving our own behaviour) Indirect Control (problems involving other peoples behavior), No Control (problems we can do nothing about)
Read On-
We need to understand how we focus our time and energy to be effective, the things which we are concerned about are come under “Circle of Concern”, the things which we can really do some about come under “Circle of Influence”, focus your energy on the Circle of Influence inside the Circle of Concerns in order to be effective. Circle of Concern is filled with ‘Have’ Statements Circle Influence filled with “Be’ Statements, anytime we think of problem that is “out there”, that thought itself is the problem.
I would love to share the habits with you all, but highly recommend you to Googlit and read by yourself from the Management Guru Himself.
management Guru Stephen Cowey ——>
Managment Guru
Love.
Sameer.S.
